There is no such thing as a perfect relationship because no one is indeed perfect. The couple in a relationship have differences and how they settle their differences will pave way for a great relationship.

A relationship is special because this is a point in your life where you open yourself up to an individual. When you are in a relationship you put your trust unto your partner and vice versa. It is human nature to yearn for someone who can complement your individual characteristics.

A relationship can be strong especially if it is built on solid ground but there are also some things couples should avoid doing because these things might lead to a rocky relationship.

1. Lying. Do not lie. Even on the dating stage, honesty is already important. How much more when the both of you are already committed. Tell your partner the truth; do not make excuses or tell made up information because eventually your partner will find out. When your partner catches you in the act of lying he or she might lose his or her trust in you.

2. Manipulation. Your partner is your equal so you will have to respect his or her decision. Do not try to manipulate him or her so that he or she will simply succumb to your wants. When you manipulate, you are like robbing him or her of his ability to decide as well as his being an individual. Learn to respect your partner's decision; remember that not all the time you get what you want.

3. Shutting your partner out. Do not ever cut off communication. When you have a fight with your partner, do not close the doors; listen to what he or she has to say. Remember that in a relationship you will have to communicate meaning you will have to speak and then listen. Shutting your partner out will not solve anything, instead sit down with him or her and compromise.

4. Talking about past relationships. Avoid talking about your past relationships most of the time. What happened in the past is past and you had already moved on. If you keep on talking about your previous partners, you might give out the impression that you are still not over them and this might affect your present partner as well as your relationship. Keep your discussion about your exes at a minimum. Keep in mind that you already have a new partner and there is really no need to cry over spilled milk.

5. Comparing. Do not ever compare. Each individual is unique; he or she will have his or her own positive and negative attributes. Do not compare your partner to your exes or even to your best friend's partner. Doing so will only cause your partner to feel insecure. Instead of comparing, compliment your partner.

The list of the things you shouldn't do in a relationship is really long but if you are mature enough, you don't need a list. All you need is common sense. Before you say or do anything, always consider your partner's feelings.